OH HOW I WISH that each week I could come up with a list of investments guaranteed to rise. You’d make money, I’d look like a genius and everybody would be happy. If only it were that easy.
Because while the point is to buy stocks that go up, the reality is that no matter how good your research is not every trade is a winner. There’s no certainty in speculation, and as we often point out sometimes you’ve got to throw a hundred casts just to get a nibble, let alone a substantial catch.
As we wrote a few months back, the emotional strain in trading can be downright debilitating. And while losing money and dealing with uncertainty is tough, I’ve found the most difficult aspect also to be the most important: taking responsibility for your own actions in the market.
Like many elements of trading, it’s much easier said than done. The fact is that when we lose money in the market it hurts. And what makes trading losses especially painful is the knowledge that it’s our action — or inaction — that prompted the loss. In a free market, nobody forces us to buy or sell anything. To that end, win or lose, when it comes to our portfolios, we’ve got nobody to blame but ourselves. (more…)